Finding Love Using Clairvoyance
Finding Love Using Clairvoyance
“If you don’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?” – Ru Paul
Finding love using clairvoyance is possible in revealing what patterns and blocks lie in the way of allowing meaningful relationships into your life. People will often seek clairvoyant readings to find love. Every Valentine’s Day the topic of love and relationships is on the mind of many. For some this day is loathsome, others fully embrace all this holiday represents. Love is a hot topic in the world of clairvoyants and psychics and is a question that is often asked during readings. Is it possible to find love through a clairvoyant reading? Can clairvoyant tools and mediation lead you to your perfect match? The answer is yes, and no.
A clairvoyant (or psychic) cannot find love for you, and if anyone tries to convince you otherwise, in saying that they can cast a spell or clear your blocks with a jumble of incantations or other methods for a fee, it is important to use your discernment. What a clairvoyant (psychic) can do is give you hello on what energies are at play, and facilitate healing and making space for new or strengthened love in relationships. That love may always be traced back to you.
What they can do is speak to what is surrounding you, by reading your aura and sensing your energies, facilitating healing and growth, and as a result, open you up to new possibilities. Ultimately, it is your knowingness and your will to heal and change your life that will open you up to deeper relationships with others, which is a mirror reflection of your deeper relationship with self.
During a clairvoyant reading, your karma may be explored in the Rose Reading where you may receive information on past patterns relationships that mirror present time experiences. During the Aura Reading, there may be present time information related to relationships. This may increase your understanding of how you love in relationships and what would benefit from further exploration of healing.
What is Love?
According to the Greek Philosopher Plato ( 428/427 BCE to 348/347BCE), there were 7 types of love. Eros, or erotic love, Philia, the love of friendship or goodwill, Storge, the love between parents and children, Agape, a universal love, Ludus, playful and non-comitted love, Pragma, the love found in duty and reason, and Philautia, self-love, which can be both healthy and unhealthy. These loves were not exclusive and could exist in combination with one another.
Finding love using clairvoyance is a pathway to healing. A clairvoyant may see the effects of previous and current relationships on your aura and communicate where it is showing up. By looking at patterning and early messaging around love, it gives an opportunity to release and heal wounds. Often hearing the information may activate a road to healing past and current relationships, making space for new or strengthened bonds.
Self-love as a Pathway to Loving Relationships
Just as the saying “you can love another only as deeply as you love yourself”, learning how you love and creating healthy relationships begins with looking within. You may learn about how you care for yourself, or how your spirit is wanting to be seen, held, and nurtured. In learning about what nourishes you and giving it back to yourself, you create energies and space that allows love in.
A Sacred Union means many things, and relates to the masculine and feminine energies that exist within all of us. It may be viewed as a circuit, of the positive and negative charges of a battery, rather than a gendered view of masculine/feminine. Alchemizing these energies, may lead to great healing and increased states of awareness. This may be expressed through relationships and partnerships. Many view a sacred union as a soul mate, twin flame, or twin ray. There is an entire segment of the spiritual services industry working with these types of relationships, but very little evidence that they are more than an idea.
Often there is a perception that these relationships are fated, which can be problematic because it does not make room for the diverse spectrum of relating across a lifetime and may leave one constantly seeking outside of the self for validation in love. It is a label that some use to justify staying in relationships that are unhealthy and not for the highest growth of the individuals involved. Whatever you believe, it is important to look within first and find your truth, answers, healing, and growing which in turn will radiate out into the world.
A Soul Mate is someone who fills the soul. They meet to activate personal changes in one another and elevate spiritually. They may remember this person’s spirit from past lives and feel an intense bond that is not easily explained in the present time. They may have a psychic connection that allows knowing what the other person is going through. They may share thoughts and show up in the dream space. They accept the other person, including their flaws. They seem to just “get” one another.
Soul mates are not always romantic partners. They can be a friend, relative, someone older or younger, a pet, or even a neighbor. The list goes on. In fact, there are many soul mate relationships that are not at all romantic in nature. Soul mates can be a connection for life or someone who comes into another’s life to teach and heal some aspect of the self, only to move on. One may experience many soul mate relationships in a lifetime.
A Twin Flame is someone who is like the “other half” as it is a soul that split in two. They mirror one another, and at times as polar opposites. Twin flames may share thoughts and communicate psychically or in the dream space. These unions are viewed as quite rare. They may remember these relationships from previous lifetimes. These relationships will often progress over multiple lifetimes. A twin flame may not necessarily incarnate at the same time as their other half. Twin flame unions are present on earth to do deep spiritual work and raise the collective consciousness. Twin flames are also not limited by male/female constructs.
When someone meets their twin flame it can be an instant and unstoppable force. Twin flames are compelled to simply love one another no matter what the obstacle, and will often attempt to seek the other half to be in a romantic relationship. There is controversy surrounding the term, as it would by definition suggest that individuals are not whole or complete without someone else.
Healing and growing in this relationship can have a profound effect on the world. Usually, there is only one twin flame relationship in a soul’s trajectory through lifetimes. It is sporadic, and not everyone finds it in this lifetime. It is worthwhile to consider the vibration of a twin flame union as something that may be cultivated within the self, regardless of whether it shows up in the form of another person.
The Trap of Soulmates and Twin Flames
A clairvoyant may look at relationships in your past and present and how you are connected, however, it is important to ask why you are seeking this label. There is a trap in endlessly searching for “the one”. Often endless searching for someone to be a soulmate or twin flame love is disempowering and depletes energy.
Endless seeking outside of yourself for some highly romanticized version of love may distract from the true nature of love, that is sourced from within. Perhaps finding a soulmate or twin flame relationship is not a goal to be chased. Perhaps the traits we seek in these types of love relationships (which do not always show up as a romantic partner) are what we are seeking within ourselves. Love does not require a partnership to be expressed in the world.
An Empowered view of Love
Love is an energy that flows, that you create regardless if there is someone on the other end to receive it. It may show up in other ways, like friendship, love for a child or sibling, a pet, or even your houseplants. Love energy may be used to heal, to create, and when healed it, in turn, creates space for relationships. It is not a thing to have or do, rather something that radiates and is free.
Perhaps rather the goal is to find a love that is connected to spirit, starting with yourself, and look for a spiritual equal in the world, meaning not someone who is a new age, floating on a cloud and perfectly realized being, rather a person who cultivates their spiritual health and wellness as part of the mission on earth.
A Psychic Perspective
Finding love using clairvoyance is possible if viewed as a method of increasing awareness and healing of self as a starting point. It is worth considering how this need to seek soulmates and twin flame relationships (as well as the guidance of a psychic reader or healer) empower me or place the power outside of myself? The only real change comes from within when you take ownership of your story, your healing journey, and create a life of your desires. What a psychic provides is a hello to your spirit, reflecting what you are showing back to you.
Exploring your Psychic Awareness to Find Love
Finding love using clairvoyance to look at how you give to yourself and how you receive give clues to how you love. Using tools and meditation can allow your gaze to turn inwards and reveal parts of yourself that need healing Unsuccessful relationships can diminish your love energies, and learning how to increase the flow of energy, release pain and pictures, and give back to yourself can create a clear space for love to come in.
Mocking up new experiences creates the optimal environment that may open new opportunities using the psychic mockup tool, among other clairvoyant tools. It may also help with creating the ideal date, partner, friend, familial relationship, colleagues, boss, or even deepen a connection to your pet. Ultimately though, it is through loving oneself, that one finds freedom and joy and radiates this outwards into loving another. Finding love through clairvoyance is possible through reading, or if you feel called, a study. With practice, consistency, and a commitment to clear the energy and heal love relationships, love may flourish. That healing begins within you.
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Authored by Natalie Colosimo
Natalie Colosimo is a passionate psychic reader who has studied intensively with The Psychic School for several years. Natalie exhibits an innate ability to communicate what she sees using a unique and relatable style.
Natalie refined and developed her abilities through intensive learning readings and healings through The Clairvoyant Training Program and is a graduate of The Clairvoyant Teachers Program. She currently works as a Psychic School staff member.
Natalie will be exploring a variety of blog topics related to all things psychic and hopes to rouse a sense of wonder and curiosity in the unseen world of spirit. Natalie believes that everyone can discover psychic abilities. Everyone can uncover their innate psychic awareness and be empowered to find answers and healing in their lives. She passionately guides and supports others to develop their clairvoyance and seniority.